I Was in a Cult – Its Name was Alcoholics Anonymous
47 years ago I was in a cult. It was 1975; I was 5 years old at the time. You might ask how that’s possible. Read this article to find out!
I Was in a Cult – Its Name was Alcoholics Anonymous
47 years ago I was in a cult. It was 1975; I was 5 years old at the time. You might ask how that’s possible. Read this article to find out!
Don’t Let Shame Get in the Way of Moving Past Your Addictions
It is hard to get past an addiction if you are busy feeling shameful and guilt ridden rather than solving the issue.
You Don’t Need to “Hit Bottom” to Move Past and Addiction!
Most people get over their addiction without hitting rock bottom.
A True Non-12 Step Program
Learn how to spot a true non-12 step program if you’re searching for a successful alternative to AA and 12 Steps.
Do I Need to attend Saint Jude Retreat or Not?
A Guide for Picking the Right Freedom Model Non 12 Step Option for your Addiction. Gain Freedom from Addiction and Gain Happiness.
How Is Your Dry January Going?
For the past few years there has been a movement that began largely on social media called Dry January. So is this new trend helpful or not?
Drugs Don’t Have a Mind of Their Own
Substances are things, they are not living or magical things, and they can’t problem solve or compel us to behave in any way.
Replacing Alcoholics Anonymous Folklore with a Real Solution
The Freedom Model for Addictions will replace Alcoholics Anonymous outdated folklore with a real solution empowering freedom!
5 Steps On Choosing a Non-12 Step Program
5 Facts about true Non-12 Step Programs, and how to choose one if you’re looking for an alternative to drug and alcohol rehab programs.
All People Can Moderate – But Not All People Want to Moderate
No one is ever out of control of their substance use, they are using in ways they feel are beneficial to them in some way.
The Pitfalls of Alternatives to Incarceration Programs
Alternatives to Incarceration Programs are an option most people jump at the chance to stay out of jail but are they effective?
Why Recovery Prevents True Freedom From Addiction
When people mention the word “recovery” from addiction, they have a certain image in their mind of an addict or alcoholic who has decided to quit their habit, has accepted their “disease”, and...
An Alliance to Help Those Desperately in Need
An Alliance between The Freedom Model for Addictions and The Hotze Health & Wellness Center I met Dr. Steven Hotze in the summer of 2019. He flew up here to Upstate New York from Houston,...
Addiction Shaming Doesn’t Help the Drug User
When you go to Alcoholics Anonymous or you get caught in the recovery trap by going to rehab, you’re taught to see any and all substance use as “bad.” This perspective is held by both the substance...
I Know I Will Never Be an Addict Again
The following excerpt is from The Freedom Model For Addictions, Chapter 23, A Happier Vision. “I know I will never be an addict again.” That was an amazing thought that I (Steven Slate) had shortly...
Why Consequences Don’t Stop Heavy Substance Use
We get the following question all the time: “How come I don’t stop drinking/getting high after I’ve crashed the car, lost my retirement, etc.?” Put another way, why don’t the consequences of heavy...
Trauma Doesn’t Cause Addiction – But it Can be a Reason for it
“Trauma doesn’t cause addiction.” Nearly every time I’ve made that statement publically, the blogosphere erupts with angry people telling me how unthinking, callous, and mean I’m being when I make...
Life After Leaving a 12 Step Recovery Group
In a couple of hours myself and my colleagues, Michelle Dunbar and Steven Slate will be performing a Facebook Live event on our Freedom Model page. We have these live shows every 2 weeks and we...
Is Moderate Drinking Possible for Everyone?
Is Moderate Drinking Possible for Everyone? The short answer is yes. Because there is no actual loss of control with respect to drinking, that means that moderation is always possible for anyone....
Recovery – The Other Half of the Addiction Disease Myth
Over the course of the last 30 years of helping people move past addiction, I’ve come to see certain patterns in the conversations I’ve had with those who struggle. For example, a common discussion...
Relative Happiness and Changing Your Substance Use Habit
When we say in The Freedom Model that people will change their substance use behaviors and habits based on what they feel will make them happier, many people mistakenly think that we're saying they...
Why Do People Fear Leaving AA (Alcoholics Anonymous)
For More on the topic of this article, check out The Addiction Solution Podcast's latest episode related to this episode here:The Addict Alcoholic Self Image I can remember deciding to leave AA...
Why is Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Considered a Cult?
For More on the topic of this article, check out The Addiction Solution Podcast's latest episode related to this episode here:The Freedom Model is The Official 12 Step Deprogramming Guide: Move...
I Hate Getting Drunk – So Why Do I Keep Doing It?
For an in-depth discussion focusing on the topic of this article, check out The Addiction Solution Podcast's related episode here:I Hate Getting Drunk – So Why Do I Keep Doing It? “I hate...
FYI, ADHD is BS
To an increasing degree, people are having prescription drug issues. Nationwide, prescription drug use kills more people than heroin and cocaine combined, so there is a rising need for people...
ADHD Meds: the New Meth? Protect your kids from addiction.
Over-medicating kids has become a major issue, an issue more and more parents are forced to address as an increasing percentage of our children are diagnosed and medicated for ADHD. Naturally, the...
Are You Waiting for Someone or Something to Fix You?
In the fall of 1989, I was lost. I had left college at Thanksgiving never to return. I felt completely alone and broken. Looking back I can't really point to any specific event that led to my full...
Warrior2Warrior and The Saint Jude Retreats Partnership
A Partnership to Solve Addiction Issues in the Special Ops and General Military CommunityAddiction.PTSD.Trauma.Suicide.Domestic Violence.Loneliness.The feelings of loss of relevance.These are just...
Stop Saying Trauma Causes Addiction!
I'm 51 years old and it occurred to me today that no one gets to 51 years old without having experienced trauma. No one. We all have one very important thing in common; we're all going to die. I'm...
Replacing a Drug Habit vs. Moving on from One
Many years ago, we promoted the idea of replacing an addiction with other more beneficial activities and positive goals as a method to help people steer clear of “relapse” and move on from...
The Choice That Saved My Life
I was a heroin addict. One choice changed my life. It wasn’t the choice to quit. When things got really bad, I knew I had to quit heroin. I knew I should quit heroin. I even wanted to quit heroin....
Why is Self-Image Important to Self-Change?
Most people, when struggling with addiction, seek out help by going to an alcohol or drug rehab, drug treatment, alcohol treatment , or what have you. The problem is, these rehabs are designed to...
Why Do I get Drunk? It Doesn’t Make Me Happy Anymore
Humans are motivated by the pursuit of happiness - always. This is true even in the realm of addiction. In The Freedom Model we call this concrete truth The Positive Drive Principle (PDP).When I’m...
EXPOSED: The Biggest Lie about Addiction
Have you ever wondered why the idea of “addiction as a disease” only includes behaviors and habits that society deems as negative or harmful? Habitual activities that are positive or neutral would...
New Study Confirms That Disease Model Of Addiction Is Disempowering
We’ve been told for several decades that the disease model of addiction would help people to stop blaming themselves for their substance use problems,provide hope, and motivate them to seek help....
There is No Such Thing as Denial in Addiction: It’s All About Control
Whether you have had a personal experience with a substance use problem or not, you have likely heard the term denial used to describe someone who uses substances heavily, but tells others they...
The Truth About Addiction: A Message to Parents
Every day I talk to parents of heavy substance users. I hear a range of emotions from fear to anger to concern to intense love. Many parents don't entirely buy into the idea that their adult child...
How Does A Freedom Model Presenter Help A Retreat Guest Facilitate Change?
Human change is an unavoidable human experience. At its core, it’s a completely personal autonomous experience. Being that this reality is concrete, one must ask – what then is the role of a Freedom...
Approaching Someone You Love About a Substance Use Problem
In 1989, my father and sister had a talk with me because they were concerned that I had an alcohol and drug problem. This was before the show Intervention became a big hit on A&E, but at a time...
Non 12 Step- What Is It?
Non 12 Step – What Does this Mean? 30 years ago, I had just matriculated out of a long term intensive outpatient program that I was mandated to attend as a result of a DUI I had gotten 18 months...
Loving Someone “In Recovery”
When you send your spouse or significant other to rehab, you're hoping that the end results will be a happier loved one and an improved relationship, but more often than not, that's not the case at...
Are You Ready To Move Past Recovery?
When most “addicts” or “alcoholics” make the decision to quit or moderate their substance usage, they usually define their newly minted selves as “a person in recovery.” Of course recovery can mean...
What Kayne West SHOULD HAVE Said Instead
We all saw it. We all heard it. The headlines in early May of 2018, “Kayne West proclaimed that slavery was a choice during an interview at the TMZ Headquarters.” If you’ve ever seen the gif of the...
Dear Worried Mom: There’s Always Hope For Your Addicted Child
Dear Worried Mom, Let me start this letter by saying I know how scared you are. I know how confused you are. I’m a parent of 3, and at one time I was a very troubled teen who was emotionally lost,...
All Addiction Help Should be Completely Private and Here’s Why: Drawbacks of Group Therapy and Support Group Meetings for Addictions
Since coming onto the scene in the 1930's, the group Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) has shaped the way people with substance use problems are helped. AA had its roots in a fundamentalist Christian...
Suboxone Has NOT Reduced Overdoses!
Suboxone has been widely adopted, yet overdose deaths have still increased Overview: Simply put, there are now far more people on the Medication Assisted Treatments methadone and buprenorphine...
Can “Addicts” and “Alcoholics” Solve Their Addiction at Home?
Over the past 84 years (since the founding of the first 12 step cult, Alcoholics Anonymous), people who struggle with addictions have been told they must attend a rehab, or at the very least they...
Costly Habits Are Chosen Habits Still
The Positive Drive Principle (PDP): the principle that humans will always act to move in the direction where they perceive the greatest happiness. -The Freedom Model for Addictions, pg 142Upon...
The Twelve Steps CREATES Addicts, It Doesn’t Cure Them!
"Remember that we deal with alcohol - cunning, baffling, powerful! Without help it is too much for us." (p.58-59, Alcoholics Anonymous) From the age of 10 years old I was told of the mysterious...
How I Escaped the 12 Step Recovery Trap and Lived to Tell About It.
I was a child who grew up in an AA household from as far back as I can remember. It was the seventies and early eighties, and many of my siblings and my mother were active members in various 12 step...
